That stung. Of course they don't know any better, and they don't know about Parker and Gavin, but it hurt. I immediately told them that I do have two babies. Then the questions started. Which I kinda regretted saying anything, but I felt like I owed it to the boys. I answered their questions, but then let it go. I never told them that they passed. I didn't know how to respond to them. Maybe I should have said nothing, but my first reaction was to say, "Yes, I do have children."
Kids do say some hard things and it is so hard to answer their questions- especially the ones about how many kids you have... (ugh)- I am a teacher and when I lost one of my twins and returned to school I remember the questions that the kids would ask- hard stuff- so raw though... Thinking of you!
ReplyDeleteHugs-
Laura D.