Family & Friends

Here are some ways that you can help us get through this devastating loss. 

• When you have nothing to say, just say "I am sorry." Slience can be okay. Just be here for us.
  
• Avoid cliches. Such as, "Everything happens for a reason.", "You are young. You can have more.", "At least you didn't get to know the baby.", "God will never give you more than you can handle."
• Ask and listen. Ask "How are you?", but be ready to listen. 
• Don't forget the Dad. He grieves also.
• Be specific in your offer to help. Saying "Call if you need anything," or "Let me know how I can help." are generic statements for grieving families. Not all people are willing to ask for help.
• Acknowledge the baby, and use their names.
• Remember special dates.
• Open communication.
• Check up

These are just some things to help because it is a hard topic. You can find more about these and others on the website below.

http://www.nationalshare.org/support-resources.html