tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8792623645340944002.post8783511938575447196..comments2023-03-30T07:19:30.950-05:00Comments on Lewis Twins: Blame Game2andcountinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03250049917969970792noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8792623645340944002.post-35502600138384794262009-06-29T16:13:29.799-05:002009-06-29T16:13:29.799-05:00Kayla,
I have to agree with Grandpa Lewis... Yo...Kayla,<br /> I have to agree with Grandpa Lewis... You and Chad are both extremely loving and giving parents. I know that the pain is unbearable at times, but you both have to know that you do have something to live for... In fact you have 2 very precious reasons to live. GAVIN & PARKER. You have to find a way to go on to honor them. They will live forever in you two... And yes they are with Jesus watching and loving the both of you for being the wonderful parents you are. <br /><br /> As far as talents.... Lets get busy on that book. We can dedicate it to Parker and Gavin.<br /><br />I love you bunchesGreat Aunt Heathernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8792623645340944002.post-10754707257507338742009-06-26T10:25:01.355-05:002009-06-26T10:25:01.355-05:00Thank you so much for your comment. Thank you for ...Thank you so much for your comment. Thank you for thinking that we are good parents and acknowledging we still are parents. But you do feel like you failed as parents. That you couldn't protect your children. It is so hard to deal with. I do not take any of it as criticism. I know you care and are hurting also. I also know you will always be here for Chad and I. We love you too.2andcountinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03250049917969970792noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8792623645340944002.post-51538938076335898922009-06-22T13:37:27.012-05:002009-06-22T13:37:27.012-05:00Kayla,
You and Chad are very young and should not ...Kayla,<br />You and Chad are very young and should not have to go through these hard times. It's VERY adult of you to take responsibility for all that happened, as adults and parents, we have to take responsibility for things that don't work out the way their supposed to. You could spend the rest of your life second guessing what happened and trying to figure out what you could have changed. But the fact is, you are not responsible for what happened, it just happened, the doctor said that there is nothing that could have been done to have changed things. If there is a person out there that tries to make you feel differently, I would like you to direct me to them. I would be glad to explain my point of view. You and Chad have to concentrate on looking forward, no matter how hard that seems and taking the boys with you. Don’t worry, they will not be forgotten.<br />No Talents? Forgive me for sounding too much like a Dad, but you have plenty. I have been around you for several years, and you could do all kinds of things. Having said that, I totally understand how you feel that being a Mom is the best occupation for you. I feel that way about you also, which makes me feel good that all my grandkids are in good hands. Not everybody will be a good parent. Not everybody starts out being a good parent, and some have to learn how after they get their kids. You have that talent right now. I think that you can do other things that keep you busy until you have little one to carry around.<br />Please don’t take any of what I have said to be criticism, because it is not. I just want you and Chad to know that I will always be here to help wherever I can. I love you both,Grandpa Lewisnoreply@blogger.com